Insecurity happens on most girls, since they are the more sensitive than boys. Their insecurity usually starts from the day they start going to school. They see someone who is popular, rich and has so many boy friends, then you probably ask yourself, I wish I was her, I wish I have those, I wish I have bigger boobs and so on.
On men, well not so much, they have this 'ego' rather than insecurities.
Anyway, I got something that will help boost your confidence and kick insecurities to live happy.
- Study yourself in the mirror. Look at yourself , you are a beautiful person inside and out
- Do something you love. If you were invited to go cheer leading and you actually didn't like it, but you do it just to make you popular, then don't do it. Doing something that you don't really love will give you regrets in the end.
- Don't do things for other people, do it for you.
- Wear something that's special to you. It could be a bracelet a necklace or anything that you usually bring. If you feel insecure just look at it, and the bad feelings will go away.
- Think of something good about yourself. Be it your stunning eyes or your arched feet that make it easy to run. Nearly all people have at least one amazing talent. Search for your ability, find it, and cultivate it into a highly valued skill. Even the geeks in high school ended up very successful in life.
- Don't feel that you have to be happy all the time, nobody is happy all the time, have real emotions.
- Avoid feeling the need to impress others with phony stories or made-up falsehoods. You must realize that the people who are worth spending your time with are also the people that will accept you for who you are.
